Married dating married man
A guy who wants to dedicate himself to you will have separated from his wife, processed the breakup, then put himself back out there.Nobody can jump straight into another relationship with the finesse you may be imagining – sure, it’s nice to think about this guy slamming down divorce papers and rushing off into the sunset with you, but how do you know this relationship is going to last?If he chooses you, he needs to terminate his existing relationship, process the emotions that will accompany that – and then maybe you’ll consider a relationship with him.I moved to a new city a few months ago and have made some good friends.But what I wasn’t prepared for even more is to actually feel that her explanation made sense.“Men are allowed to marry four women in Islam so technically he’s not cheating on his wife (as long as he’s not having sex with the other woman), this is like him trying to pick out a new wife,” she said.
Sorry to disappoint married men from all other faiths who were thinking of doing the same thing.
It may be fun to sneak around, and to entertain fantasies of this guy choosing you – but what if his wife catches you?
No matter which way you look at it, at least one person is going to get hurt. If this guy is the love of your life, and you want to make a serious relationship with him work, tell him he will need to make a choice between you and his wife.
In fact, it was only yesterday that I Facebooked about it criticizing women who allow themselves to be in such a relationship.
So it was only very ironic to have this conversation on the following day. What do you think of Muslim and other married men and women who do?
His wife is leaving again soon and they're technically separated, but I know they obviously still talk.