Taking dating slow
Maybe he wants to actually learn shit about you before hopping face first into your G-string.At the end of the day, all you can do is speculate and decide if he’s worth the effort to stick around and overthink way too often. The only thing better than ugly Christmas sweaters is ugly Christmas sweater lingerie, am I right?It’s easy to hate on guys that do this, because it seems like they think coming into contact with their dick makes you undatable.But as someone who also experiences this, I can attest to the fact that it’s a real thing and maybe not as misogynistic as it seems. “I figured out a while ago that if I sleep with a girl too fast, I just never form the right kind of bond with her,” said Reddit user Jaron K.
Here’s what it could really mean, according to Reddit bros and the Galore staff’s experience. Read all about it here, but basically it means you can’t form feelings for someone if you have sex with them too soon.
Set reasonable boundaries and communicate your wishes to your partner clearly to control the pace of your relationship.
Only take things to the "next level" when you're ready. When you find the right person, they will grow to love and accept you for who you are, flaws and all.
Otherwise, get out before he thinks his sweet talk actually worked.
“In my single days, I would tell a girl that [I wanted to take things slow] for a couple of reasons,” said Reddit user el_koog.
It doesn’t matter how great you are, he’s not going to see you any differently. “I’ve done this before,” said Reddit user Diablo165. “I told a girl that [I wanted to take things slow] after I had just gotten dumped and my self-esteem was completely shot down by an ex,” said Reddit user captainfrobie.